Michael and I got married, Gabe started the 1st grade and loves it, Davis is a senior in high school and on track to graduate, we got another dog named BoBo (a 5 year old English Bulldog) with a phenomenal temperament who also (we found out after we adopted him) has epilepsy, and Elijah turned 4 and started hockey. Whew!
Elijah has hockey 3 times a week for the next 4 months. Then, after that he has hockey for the next bagillian years. Although the level of commitment required of a family really shouldn't surprised me at this point, as I grew up in a very committed hockey family (I spent a lot of time at the rink, let's put it that way - my brother was a player and my dad was always coaching), it still shocked me a bit. Now, everyone just knows that Hockey is an expensive sport, so I knew this. It's not the cost, it's everything else, holy cow! Along with the regular dues required to play, and the equipment needed, it is a requirement to participate/volunteer a certain number of hours. When I filled out the registration form for Elijah, they ask how you want to use your required hours, and there are check marks and a bunch of options. You are required to do a certain number of hours (not just a few either), or pay your way out of them. On top of that, you need to sell raffle tickets (or just purchase all of them up front). Wo Nelly! They are not messing around! So, next time you walk into a rink and see all the parents and families so involved in the program...remember, they rope you in early!
Now, I'm not complaining at all. I like the hockey life. And, everyone there has accepted us as a part of their community from the second we stepped in the door, and that has been so nice and really needed in our family. But I can see where our life is headed...we will be logging a lot of time in the ice rink!